LDR a.k.a Long Distance Relationship

I'm a little bit sensitive if talk about distance actually..hehehe..but i wanna talk about long distance relationship..because it is interesting topic now.. ;-)

Some people say LDR is same with single..i don't know why they said like that..maybe because if you are in LDR you only have status but can't have your partner everyday..you will watch movie alone..you will spend your weekend with your friends not with your partner..you will only hug and kiss your partner by texting or calling on the phone..

But for Little Butterfly..maybe it is old fashioned..distance isn't a big problem for me..because relationship isn't only about kissing, hugging, meeting, cuddling, going out but it is more about affection, caring, loving, understanding, trusting, supporting each other..so distance can be used to measure how the relationship are meant for each other..need two brave people to be in LDR..two people who have love, trust, commitment, loyalty, honesty and faith for each other..
There are skype..whatsApp..BBM..email..Viber..YM..facebook..twitter..for making communication easier..you still can care and give attention..right..?..But you must give more understanding when your partner is tired or busy or sad or happy or upset or confuse..so you must know when you must give spirit, hug, affection, or when you must cheer your partner up..

It isn't easy..but it is worth enough to try.. ;-)
Based on Little Butterfly's experience..I won't say it is difficult..but i will say it isn't easy..you must be positive thinking..you must be trust your partner totally..because you can't see them everyday..you can't see directly whether they say..is the truth or they lie to you..I were in LDR before..and unfortunately all ended with loyalty issues..hehehe

So..there are some tips for LDR
1. Keep the communication alive..although you are busy..although you are tired..make time for your partner..only for say good morning or good night..make them realize that they are on your mind always..
2. Keep the romanticism alive..send your partner sexy or naughty message for teasing them..hehehe
3. See them regularly..meet them regularly..if can't face to face or meet them in real..use skype..although it can't change the moment when the real meeting but it can help a lot ya.. ;-)
4. Make an agreement..when the LDR will be a real relationship..when you can be together..because you must know where the relationship will go..
5. Don't think too much..avoid negative thinking of your partner..trust them totally..make yourself busy with your activity..be confident..be happy..make yourself happy first before you make other happy..

Then..I dare you..who brave enough to be in LDR..???
hehehe
Don't give up with distance ya.. \(^_^)/