Bikin Paspor itu Mudah

mumpung lg d kantor imigrasi neh makany mo nulis ttg bikin paspor.. ini bukan bermaksud menghilangkan rejeki para calo2 paspir cm mo berbagi aja sebagai WNI yg punya rasa nasionalisme yg tinggi demi memberantas yg namany korupsi..merdeka...!!!!! klo mo ngantri dan sabar bikin paspor itu mudah dan murah kok..ini cm habis 255rb doank utk paspor 48 hal.. coba bayangin klo bikin di tour agent ato calo minim paling murah 500rb..2kali lipat kan.. ndak susah kok..klo mo upload dokumen online bisa lebih cepet tpi klo kesuliran online ya ngantri kumpulin berkas deh di kantor imigrasi.. jadi gini neh.. 1.pertama2 siapin deh berkasny yg asli ma fotocopy di kertas kuarto 80gr ya..berkas yg perlu disipin adalah..ktp, kk, akte lahir, ijazah, klo udah kerja ya surat rekomendasi dari perusahaan ya.. 2.kedua..klo mo ulpload dl sbg pra permohonan ya klik deh www.imigrasi.go.id..klo ndak bisa connect internet a.k.a agak gaptek..dateng langsung aja k kantor imigrasi..minta form k petugas..isi deh..ngantri..terus dpt tanda bukti yg menjelaskan kapan harus balik ke kantor imigrasi lg. 3.ketiga..sesuai dg tanggal yg tertera d tanda bukti penerimaan berkas dateng lg deh k imigrasi bt foto ma interview..eh sekalian tanda tangan jg..dan so pasti bayar donk..klo ndak bayar yo ndak mungkin dsuruh poto..hehe 4.udah itu tunggu deh 3-4 hari buat ambil paspornya.. 5.jieeeeennggg jieeennggg..jadi deh paspornya.. mudah kan prosesny..cm kebiasaan bangsa indonesia aja yg mentalny ndak mo antri dan maunya instan.. udah ya segini dl postinganny.. mo pooto2 dl..hehe..mumpung d kantor imigrasi..

Birthday means something..

This date 27 years ago..God gave me chance to start learning a lot of things.. from sad..terrible..hard..until thing that we call happiness.. This year means my chance to live in the world decrease 1time..and i'm still progressing to be a better better person..still being myself..still giving my best..and and and want to say thank you to all people who still love me and stand by my side although have known my a lot of weakness.. i know it is not enough only say thank you here..hehe.. Happy birthday to me..

shock therapy

Morning guys....
This morning i'm really surprised..and then a lot of questions show up in my mind and heart..
ceritanya gini neh..berhubung mobil jemputan bt k kantor ngadat a.k.a sopirnya ndak jemout..so mau ndak mau kan little butterfly naek trans semarang neh (ini nama bus ya..bukan stasiun TV)..
nah kan rame bgt tuh klo pagi...yg mulai dri anak sekolah..ibu2 arisan..hehe..maksudnya ibu2 yg mo berangkat k kantor..ato pasar..hehe..
waktu itu ada bapak2 tua..naek...eh anak2 muda yg pake seragam...m mbak2 arisan yg pada dpt tempat duduk ndak mo pd ngasih tempat duduk coba...
ini kenapa ya dg bangsa indonesia skrg ini?
kayaknya kita udah kehilangan jati diri bangsa indonesia..yg ada cm individualistik yg makin mengakar..
kadang little butterfly jg mikir seh...i'm the perfect prrson to talk about this because honestly..ya secara maunya nikah ma orang bule..ntar ditanyain deh nasionalismenya mana..hehe..
tapi kan setidaknya klo waktu itu dpt tempat duduk pasti deh little butterfly kasihin k bapak2 itu..(note: waktu itu yg nulis ini jg ndak dpt tempat duduk ya)..

kayaknya memang harus digalakkan pendidikan karakter yg sebenar2nya deh buat genetasi muda d Indonesia..
biar pd ngerti gt tradisi bangsa Indonesia yg mendunia...hehe

udah ah nulis ngalor ngidulnya..mo nyampe kantor neh..kerja ma orang jerman dl ya...tzzzxxxtttt..penjajahan ini namanya..ya namanya cri duit..hehehe

Come Back

Selamat Pagi...
Guten Morgen..
Good Morning..

I'm come back..
Lama bener ya ndak nulis di sini..hadoooooohhh..lagi sibuk banget neh..
Mo jualan sarung tangan aja deh..secara sekarang lagi kerja di perusahaan Jerman yg bikin sarung tangan..kemarin habis pameran neh di INABIKE 2013 di JIEXPO Kemayoran..

Keren kan aku..hahahaha..narsis bener neh anak.. :P
It just a preface..besok mo nulis contentnya ya...

LDR a.k.a Long Distance Relationship

I'm a little bit sensitive if talk about distance actually..hehehe..but i wanna talk about long distance relationship..because it is interesting topic now.. ;-)

Some people say LDR is same with single..i don't know why they said like that..maybe because if you are in LDR you only have status but can't have your partner everyday..you will watch movie alone..you will spend your weekend with your friends not with your partner..you will only hug and kiss your partner by texting or calling on the phone..

But for Little Butterfly..maybe it is old fashioned..distance isn't a big problem for me..because relationship isn't only about kissing, hugging, meeting, cuddling, going out but it is more about affection, caring, loving, understanding, trusting, supporting each other..so distance can be used to measure how the relationship are meant for each other..need two brave people to be in LDR..two people who have love, trust, commitment, loyalty, honesty and faith for each other..
There are skype..whatsApp..BBM..email..Viber..YM..facebook..twitter..for making communication easier..you still can care and give attention..right..?..But you must give more understanding when your partner is tired or busy or sad or happy or upset or confuse..so you must know when you must give spirit, hug, affection, or when you must cheer your partner up..

It isn't easy..but it is worth enough to try.. ;-)
Based on Little Butterfly's experience..I won't say it is difficult..but i will say it isn't easy..you must be positive thinking..you must be trust your partner totally..because you can't see them everyday..you can't see directly whether they say..is the truth or they lie to you..I were in LDR before..and unfortunately all ended with loyalty issues..hehehe

So..there are some tips for LDR
1. Keep the communication alive..although you are busy..although you are tired..make time for your partner..only for say good morning or good night..make them realize that they are on your mind always..
2. Keep the romanticism alive..send your partner sexy or naughty message for teasing them..hehehe
3. See them regularly..meet them regularly..if can't face to face or meet them in real..use skype..although it can't change the moment when the real meeting but it can help a lot ya.. ;-)
4. Make an agreement..when the LDR will be a real relationship..when you can be together..because you must know where the relationship will go..
5. Don't think too much..avoid negative thinking of your partner..trust them totally..make yourself busy with your activity..be confident..be happy..make yourself happy first before you make other happy..

Then..I dare you..who brave enough to be in LDR..???
hehehe
Don't give up with distance ya.. \(^_^)/

Film Romantis - Best Romantic Movie Ever

Hai..hai..Good Morning everybody..
Berhubung lagi seneng nonton neh..makanya mo kasih beberapa film yang recommended banget neh..tapi recommended bagi Little Butterfly ya..dilarang protes..biarin kalo subjektif..hehehe

1. Habibie Dan Ainun
Terlepas dari penokohan yang kurang tepat..sosok Pak Habibienya neh kurang pas..tapi cerita film ini sumpah bikin nangis..ternyata cinta sejati sampai maut memisahkan itu ada ya..
Film ini berdasarkan kisah nyata dari Bapak BJ. Habibie dan Ibu Ainun..yang mengisahkan kesetian dua insan manusia sampai ajal menjemput salah satunya..

2. Beautiful Mind
Film ini berkisah tentang kisah nyata John Nash ilmuwan jenius yang mengidap schizophrenia dimana dia tidak bisa membedakan antara halusinasi dan kenyataan..Nash merupakan pria yang jenius dan menikah dengan wanita cantik bernama Alicia Larde..Film ini menceritakan kesetiaan istri Nash..yang tidak pernah meninggalkan  Nash walau sakit yang diderita Nash makin parah dan mengharuskan Larde membawanya ke rumah sakit jiwa untuk diobati..
Film ini mengajarkan kita untuk mencintai pasangan kita bagaimanapun keadaannya..

3. The Vow
Film ini berkisah tentang kisah nyata antara Leo dan Paige yang saling mencintai dan kemudian menikah..belum lama menikah, mereka mengalami kecelakaan maut..nyawa keduanya berhasil diselamatkan tetapi Paige mengalami koma..Leo dengan sabar menunggui Paige hingga sadar kembali..tetapi Paige mengalami hilang ingatan..Paige tidak ingat siapa Leo..dan mulai berubah watak..tetapi Leo tetap berusaha untuk membuat ingatan Paige kembali selama 18 tahun..
Gilaaaaaa...film ini so sweet banget..tanpa cinta dan kasih yang tulus kayaknya ndak mungkin deh..

4. A Moment to Remember
Film dari Korea ini berkisah tentang Su Jin dan Chul Soo yang bertemu tanpa sengaja di sebuah mini market dan kemudian jatuh cinta dan menikah..tetapi kemudian Su Jin diketahui menderita Alzheimer dan akan membuatnya kehilangan seluruh memori di otaknnya..karena begitu cintanya Su Jin pada Chul Soo..maka dia memilih pergi dan tinggal di panti rehabilitasi..tetapi Chul Soo terus mencari istrinya tersebut dan akhirnya menemui istrinya tersebut...tetapi sayangnya Su Jin sudah tidak ingat kepada Chul Soo..Chul Soo-pun kemudian membawa Su Jin kembali ke tempat2 dan peristiwa2 dimana mereka dulu pertama kali bertemu..
Sediiiiihhh banget filmya..tapi endingnya ndak ketauan..apakah Su Jin mati ato tetap hidup..ato gimana..namanya juga film..hehehe

Trus pertanyaannya..pasangan Little Butterfly kemana yak...??????

This is The English Version

Hai .. hai .. Good Morning everybody ..
Because my hobby at this moment is watching movie .. so i will give some movie recommendation..maybe you can watch it in Valentine's Day..hehe..it is a little bit subjective ya..based on my Little Butterfly's point of view..hehehe

1. Habibie and Ainun
Although the lack of proper characterizations of Mr. Habibienya.. not fit figure .. but this movie makes crying .. there is true love until death tear them apart ..
The film is based on the true story of Mr. BJ. Habibie and Mrs. Ainun's loyalty .. (you can read in my another post about this movie)

2. Beautiful Mind
The plot revolves around the true story of John Nash genius scientist who developed schizophrenia in which he can not distinguish between hallucination and reality .. Nash is a genius man and married to a beautiful woman named Alicia Larde .. The film tells about the Nash's wife loyalty .. that never leaves Nash despite Nash's illness is getting worse and is pushed Larde to took him to a mental hospital for treatment ..
This movie teaches us to love our partner under any circumstances ..

3. The Vow
This film tells the real story between Leo and Paige are in love and then get married .. not long after married, they had a deadly accident .. they were saved but Paige got in a coma .. Leo is waiting Paige patiently until she conscious .. but Paige memory is loss .. she does not remember who is Leo .. and began to change the character .. but Leo still trying to make Paige's memories back for 18 years ..
... this movie really so sweet .. without love it is impossible ..

4. A Moment to Remember
The film from Korea tells about Su Jin and Chul Soo who meet accidentally in a mini market and then fall in love and get married .. but then Su Jin is known have Alzheimer disease and would make it lose all memory in her brain .. because she really love Chul Soo and doesn't wanna make him sad.. so she choose to go and live in rehabilitation place .. but Chul Soo keep looking for her and finally meet his wife... but unfortunately Su Jin can't remember who is Chul Soo .. Soo Chul then brought Su Jin back to the place and the moment when they met for the first time ..
Sad ending movie..Su Jin can remember the first time they met..and..jreeeng jreeengg..the movie is end..hehehe

Then the question is where is Little Butterfly's partner of life..????
hehehe
Someday..in the right moment..in the right place..with the right person yaaaa guys..^_^

Udah dulu ya..Little Butterfly mo pulang kantor dulu ya sapa tau ketemu jodoh di jalan..hihihi

Valentine Day

Pagiiiiiiiiiii..\(^_^)/

Mmmmmm..mumpung lagi hari-H-nya neh..mo bahas Valentine day aaahhhhh...mariiii merapat para pemuda pemudi dimanapun Anda berada..hehehe

Sebenarnya..Little Butterfly sendiri tuh ndak tau asal usul perayaan Valentine Day..nah setelah hari ini ndak ada kerjaan dan browsang browsing sana sini..nemu deh..sejarah perayaan Valentine Day..

Sejarahwan menyebutkan bahwa titik awal Valentine day berasal dari era Yunani Kuno, dimana menurut kalender yunani kuno, pertengahan bulan Februari adalah hari penghormatan terhadap pernikahan dewa mereka, Dewa Zeus dengan Hera. Itulah mengapa pada pertengahan Februari selalu dilakukan pesta pora memeriahkan hari kasih sayang para dewa mereka. 

Sejarah terus bergulir, sampai pada masa masa keemasan agama Katolik di Eropa, saat Paus Gelasius I, pada tahun 496 menetapkan tanggal 14 Februari sebagai hari untuk mengenang jasa-jasa santo Valentinus.

Untuk memperkuat legenda Santo Valentinus ini, tulang belulang dari makam Santo Hyppolytus yang berlokasi di Tibertinus dekat Roma, disebutkan sebagai kerangka jenazah St. Valentinus. Kemudian kerangka itu dimasukkan dalam peti terbuat dari emas dan ditempatkan di gereja Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church di Dublin, Irlandia oleh Paus Gregorius XVI pada tahun 1836. Hingga sekarang, peti jenasah terbuat dari emas yang berisikan kerangka itu setiap tanggal 14 Februari selalu banyak di ziarahi oleh pemujanya, kemudian diadakan misa khusus untuk memberkati para muda-mudi yang tengah mabuk asmara.

Legenda Santo Valentinus yang mengusung perayaan hari Valentine Day dihapus dari kalender gerejawi pada tahun 1969 dalam rangka menghapuskan Santo-santo gadungan yang tidak dikenal asal-usulnya.

Namun kata "Valentine Day" sendiri baru tersebutkan secara tertulis pada abad pertengahan (sekitar abad 14) lewat karya sastra Geoffrey Chaucer pada abad ke-14 yang berjudul Parlement of Foules (Percakapan Burung-Burung), berikut ini kutipannya :

For this was sent on Seynt Valentyne's day
When every foul cometh there to choose his mate

Pada era itu, setiap tanggal 14, pasangan-pasangan kekasih saling menukarkan catatan atau surat-surat cinta, dan menyebut pasangannya sebagai "My Valentine".

Pada era modern, budaya dan legenda hari Valentine Day ini semakin menyebar seiring dengan berbagai penjajahan yang dilakukan oleh Inggris dan Amerika ke seluruh penjuru bumi. Ditambah dengan promosi besar-besaran di berbagai media seperti Televisi, majalah, koran, internet dan buku-buku, membuat budaya Valentine Day yang notebonenya berasal dari legenda ini menjadi mendunia, yang begitu di puja dan dinanti para kawula muda..

Nah di atas merupakan sejarah awal Valentine Day..yg Little Butterfly ambil dari googling..http://www.poztmo.com/2012/01/valentine-day.html..

Terlepas dari sejarah awal mula perayaan Valentine Day di atas..menurut Little Butterfly..cinta kasih itu umum..kita bisa memberikan cinta kasih kita kepada siapapun dan apapun..tidak harus melulu kepada pasangan..dan perayaan cinta kasih itu tidak harus tanggal 14 Februari kok..bisa tiap hari..tiap saat..ya walaupun sah2 aja seh kalo mo merayakan sesuatu dengan pasangan  ato mo romantis2an pada tanggal 14 Februari..hanya saja yang belum punya pasangan ndak usah sedih and galau ya..kan bisa neh sayang2an ma keluarga..ma temen2..ma hewan peliharaan..ato bikin aja "it's me time"..saatnya sayang2an ma diri sendiri..

hehehehe..

Terus yang udah punya pasangan a.k.a pacar ya jangan kebablasan ya romantis2annya..(ya..ndak usah disebutin deh..udah sama2 dewasa kan..?)..lah jangan2 yang baca blog ini ada yang masih di bawah umur ya..hadooooohhh...maaf deh maaf..ndak ada maksud apa2 cuma mo berbagi aja ma seluruh pembaca blog ini...ini udah termasuk perayaan Valentine buat Little Butterfly loh..berbagi cinta kasih kepada seluruh pembaca..hehe..

Happy Valentine Day ya..don't need to celebrate it only for saying Happy Valentine Day..Indahnya berbagi dan menghargai..\(^_^)/

This is in English Version

Morningggggg .. \ (^ _ ^) /

Mmmmmm .. today is Valentine Day .. so wanna talk about Valentine day

Actually .. Little Butterfly don't know about the history of the celebration of Valentine Day .. well after all day browsing..hehe..i got about the history of Valentine's Day celebration ..

Historians say that the starting point for Valentine's day comes from the Ancient Greek era, which according to ancient Greek calendar, mid-February is a day of tribute to marriage their god, the god Zeus with Hera. That's why in mid-February has always done debauchery Valentines Day enliven their gods.

History rolled on, until the time of the golden age of Catholicism in Europe, when Pope Gelasius I in 496 year set February 14 as the day to commemorate the saint Valentinus services.

To reinforce the legend of St. Valentine, the bones of the tomb of Saint Hyppolytus located in Tibertinus near Rome, is mentioned as a skeleton corpse St. Valentinus. Then the skeleton was put in a coffin made of gold and placed in the church Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland by Pope Gregory XVI in 1836. Until now, coffins made of gold that contains the skeleton every year on February 14 always is visited by many devotees, then held a special mass to bless the young people who are drunk romance.

The legend of Saint Valentine that brought Valentine's Day celebration is removed from the ecclesiastical calendar in 1969 in order to eliminate imitation saints who appeared that moment.

But the word "Valentine's Day" had just written in the Middle Ages (around 14th century) by Geoffrey Chaucer literature on the 14th century titled Parlement of Foules (Conversations The Birds), the following quotation:

For this was sent on Seynt Valentyne's day

When every foul Cometh there to choose his mate

In that era, every 14, pairs of lovers exchanging mutual notes or love letters, and called his partner as "My Valentine".

In the modern era, culture and legends of Valentine's Day is spreading along with a variety of colonization by British and Americans across the earth. Coupled with a massive campaign in various media such as television, magazines, newspapers, the internet and books, making Valentine's Day culture that came from legend become a global culture, and is awaited by the young people ..

The history of Valentine's Day celebration is taken from http://www.poztmo.com/2012/01/valentine-day.html ..

For Little Butterfly without look into the history of the Valentine's Day celebration.. love is universal .. we can generally give our love to anyone and anything .. not only for our partner .. and the celebration of love does not have to celebrate in February 14 .. can be every day .. can be every time .. but for couple who wanna celebrate in February 14 is great.. 

But for people who don't have partner yet..don't be sad ya..you can celebrate it with your family..your friends..your pet..or the best thing ever is celebrate it with yourself..make "it's me time"..so you can love yourself first..before you love other people.. ;-)

Happy Valentine's Day ya .. do not need to celebrate it only for saying Happy Valentine's Day .. The beauty of sharing and respect .. \ (^ _ ^) /